Anyone who has every gone through the moving process know how stressful it can be. This can be even more true for children going through the process. Some of the same things that can help make moving less stressful for us can help your children as well. In addition, there are certain things you can do to make the journey to your new home fun and enjoyable for kids. The key to many of these tips is keeping the kids involved and informed.
Talk About It
As soon as you know that you will have to move, let your kids know. Delaying the information does not help anybody. The more time the kids have to process the information, the better. Make sure you have a face to face conversation with your children and give them your full attention so you can answer any questions they have. Let them know about their new neighborhood, schools, sports teams, etc. If you have pictures of any of these, use them. Anything that you can do to put a positive spin on the move will make it less scary and more exciting.
Pack It Up
As hard as it can be, let your kids help pack, especially their room and their belongings. Depending on the child’s age, watching all their things get packed up in boxes can be scary and confusing. Start packing as soon as possible to keep that task as stress-free as possible. Let them help label their boxes with a special label or color-coded system. Most importantly, keep important sentimental items like favorite blankets, special toys, or anything that provides comfort out of boxes and in an overnight bag for your kid instead. Having easy access to these things can make the first night in a new home a little less scary. The last thing you want on your first night in your new home is having to look through tons of boxes for that stuffed animal your child can’t sleep without.
Stay Positive
Kids see and absorb much more than we give them credit for. When they see us acting stressed out and upset during the moving process, they will likely feel the same. If, instead, you try to make everything as fun and positive as possible, they will follow suit. If you are moving into the Seaside Park real estate market, tell them all the great things that will be close by for them to enjoy. While keeping the kids involved as much as possible is a good thing, there are certainly times when it will be easier for them to not be involved. If you know packing up all your fragile belongings is going to take some time and might be stressful for you, call a sitter or try to do those tasks while the kids are in school. It not only gives the kids a break from packing and being in a home filled with boxes, it will let you focus on the task at hand and get it done much faster.
Let Your Kids Make Some Decisions
Moving is something that can make kids feel completely helpless. It can seem like everything is happening without them and they can’t do anything to stop it. One way to alleviate some of this is to let them make some decisions. Whether it is what restaurant you’re going to eat at or order from your first night in your new home or picking a color for their new bedroom, any decisions your kids can help with, let them. Another great tip is if you have a floor plan of your kid’s new bedroom, let them decide how they want their furniture arranged. Giving your children control over some things can help reduce their stress which makes moving more enjoyable for everyone.
Moving Should Be a Family Affair
If you recently purchased a home in the Ortley Beach real estate market, it should be easy to be excited about your move. The more you talk to your kids about moving, the less scary it will be. While it is going to be a stressful time for most adults, it doesn’t have to be the case for your children. Just as your realtor sold you your new house, you need to do the same thing for your kids. Sometimes fear and anxiety can manifest in behavior changes so the more people that are aware the better and healthier for your child. Be sure to tell others involved in your kids’ lives like teachers, clergy, and friends’ parents that you are moving so they can provide support to the child as well. Moving doesn’t have to be all scary and stressful. It can be fun and exciting. If you do it as a family, it will be beneficial for all of you.




Movers
If you own a rental property, you know how much work can be involved in the maintenance. Other than cleaning the house from top to bottom in between renters, there are a lot of other things to consider. Landscaping is a big one. You want your rental home to be welcoming, look appropriate for your location, and be easy to maintain. There are a few key items that can help keep your rental property’s curb appeal looking it’s best with minimal effort from you!
Winter is almost over and fresh air and open windows are on the horizon! If your house is on the market or will be soon, now is a great time to do some spring cleaning. While it may seem silly to perform this task when you will hopefully be moving soon, it is essential when selling your home. Showing a sparkling clean home helps to properly showcase all the value your home has. Value can be diminished when your home appears dirty and messy. In order to show your home at its best, maintain a clean and neat home while it is on the market.
We are pleased to announce the merger of Citta & Moffitt Realtors with Birchler Realtors! Based in Seaside Park, Citta & Moffitt Realtors has over 65 years of real estate experience in Ocean County and we are so pleased to have them join our team. If you have a favorite agent in either office you don’t have to worry because all the staffing will remain the same. By joining forces, our goal is to provide our customers with a larger pool of available properties while keeping all the friendly faces you are familiar with.
Owners title insurance is intended to protect a new home buyer from monetary loss due to issues with the title not found prior to the sale of the home. Not all problems with titles are easy to find and/or identify, so title insurance protects you from claims made against the home or property having to do with anything before the completion of the sale of the home. Examples could be unpaid taxes by the previous owner or contractors trying to collect on monies owed for work done on the home preceding the sale.